That thing called "HEARTBREAK"
How is it to be stabbed in the heart a couple of times? Or a about a few more? Stabbed and then moved up and down, left and right? Or maybe circled a couple of times? Leaving your heart crushed or should I say DEAD. Oh how it would it be easy getting over a heartbreak when you're dead but it's not that SIMPLE. Physical pain is better I'd say rather than emotional pain. It's excruciating. The pain stays and never heals. Going through a heartbreak is indeed not that simple. How you'd wished there is a logical explanation for that certain feeling but you can't rationalize it. All you know is that, it hurts. A LOT!
I myself had experience heartbreak after heartbreak after heartbreak. But let me share you my survival story. Proud to say I didn't die. HAHA. To tell you, how many times I had wished myself dead but I have to go through every heartbreak alive. As in the movie "My sassy girl" states.. "We have to stay alive, to see how the story ends..." And wollaaaa.. Here I am alive and kicking. God saved me. He wants me to experience life at its fullest. Because there's more to life rather than by keeping myself stuck in a heartbreak. Though I'm still healing from it, I am really doing better. To tell you, a great deal of my driving forces to go on was my social support system.. my friends and family. And I will always be thankful for them. I had to stay strong for them. For them, who had been always there for me. For them, who will always love me. Being in that situation, taught me many lessons. It taught me a lot to be strong. It taught me the importance of self-worth and self-love which I almost lost in the process of loving someone so much. And you can never really hate someone for such a long time. And you can never unlove a person. But what I'm struggling right now is forgiveness. Maybe that's one thing I have to give fully in order to move forward. But maybe I need more time. More time so that I can forgive him and forgive myself.
For those who are experiencing heartbreak, don't give up on life. I am sure somebody up there loves you. Yes, God loves you!
Well, here are some stuffs I could share to make you feel better...
READ.
Here are inspirational books I recommend you to read:
-Dear Alex, break na kami. Paano?
-I kissed dating goodbye
-Boy meets girl
-the BIBLE (ofcourse)
MUSIC.
Sing at the top of your lungs.Habang feel na feel mo ikanta yung song na nakakarelate ka.
And listen to empowering moving on songs such as
-stronger (kelly clarkson)
-ugly heart
*actually may playlist nyan sa spotify check mo nlang :)
For me, worship songs helped a lot and made me even feel better. Try mo din. Daily habit ko yan.
Check worship songs from Hillsong, Victory Worship, Laura Story, Kari Jobe and many more.
RELEASE.
Cry if you have to. Makirelate sa mga HUGOT. Mas mabuti nang ubusin mo.
Ikanta mo yan sa videokehan.Magsasawa ka rin. hehe
Though I'm still affected, it doesn't hurt that much anymore. You can do it. Nakaya ko nga. :)
WRITE.
For me it was my way of release. Though I
talk it out always. Writing gives me that
wonderful feeling of accomplishing something.
HAVE PEACE.
And don't let anger reign in your heart. Understandable ang anger na yan because you have been hurt. Pero habang buhay ka bang magpapakabitter? Diba? haha. (parang kinakausap ko lang self ko no?haha applicable) But siguro I have love him more rather than hate him. And despite everything, I will not do a thing to hurt him. And I am way better than doing revenge. Wala kang makukuha dun. Promise.
Instead. Pray for them. Pray for those who have hurt you.
YOLO MOMENTS.
Yeah coz you only live once.
Spend time with your loveones. Make it up with you friends and family.
Do something you enjoy that you think is productive and worth trying for.
Travel and travel some more.
Take that SAGADA trip (gagawin ko yan this year) Sisigaw with theee clouds :)
It's hard to move on. Bawat tao may kanya kanyang way. But what's important is you will move on. Just take time. I myself is still on that journey. But I'm alright. I'm okay. I'm saved.
Just...
FOCUS ON THE ONE. #Jesus
Live your life for Jesus. The lover of your soul.
I'm sharing this to you. Oo ikaw. Ikaw na katulad ko nagpakatanga sa pag-ibig at nasaktan. Don't worry hindi ka po nag-iisa. Madami tayo. So kakayanin mo yan! :)
Kung sa "that thing called tadhana" pa, sabi dun ni JM, "Ang love na binibigay mo, overwhelming... Not necessarily ibabalik yan nang taong pinagbigyan mo.. pero babalik at babalik yan sayo."
Don't worry, babalik yan sa atin. We deserve that kind of love too. So ngiti lang ha. Magandang buhay!
God has great plans for you. Remember Jeremiah 29:11
That thing called HEARTBREAK? Lilipas yan. If love ang dahilan nyan, love rin ang makakahilom nyan. Love rin ang makakaFILL nyan. God is still preparing for you. You just have to wait. But it will be worth it.
Kapit lang. Your story isn't still ending.
3.3.15
I myself had experience heartbreak after heartbreak after heartbreak. But let me share you my survival story. Proud to say I didn't die. HAHA. To tell you, how many times I had wished myself dead but I have to go through every heartbreak alive. As in the movie "My sassy girl" states.. "We have to stay alive, to see how the story ends..." And wollaaaa.. Here I am alive and kicking. God saved me. He wants me to experience life at its fullest. Because there's more to life rather than by keeping myself stuck in a heartbreak. Though I'm still healing from it, I am really doing better. To tell you, a great deal of my driving forces to go on was my social support system.. my friends and family. And I will always be thankful for them. I had to stay strong for them. For them, who had been always there for me. For them, who will always love me. Being in that situation, taught me many lessons. It taught me a lot to be strong. It taught me the importance of self-worth and self-love which I almost lost in the process of loving someone so much. And you can never really hate someone for such a long time. And you can never unlove a person. But what I'm struggling right now is forgiveness. Maybe that's one thing I have to give fully in order to move forward. But maybe I need more time. More time so that I can forgive him and forgive myself.
For those who are experiencing heartbreak, don't give up on life. I am sure somebody up there loves you. Yes, God loves you!
Well, here are some stuffs I could share to make you feel better...
READ.
Here are inspirational books I recommend you to read:
-Dear Alex, break na kami. Paano?
-I kissed dating goodbye
-Boy meets girl
-the BIBLE (ofcourse)
MUSIC.
Sing at the top of your lungs.Habang feel na feel mo ikanta yung song na nakakarelate ka.
And listen to empowering moving on songs such as
-stronger (kelly clarkson)
-ugly heart
*actually may playlist nyan sa spotify check mo nlang :)
For me, worship songs helped a lot and made me even feel better. Try mo din. Daily habit ko yan.
Check worship songs from Hillsong, Victory Worship, Laura Story, Kari Jobe and many more.
RELEASE.
Cry if you have to. Makirelate sa mga HUGOT. Mas mabuti nang ubusin mo.
Ikanta mo yan sa videokehan.Magsasawa ka rin. hehe
Though I'm still affected, it doesn't hurt that much anymore. You can do it. Nakaya ko nga. :)
WRITE.
For me it was my way of release. Though I
talk it out always. Writing gives me that
wonderful feeling of accomplishing something.
HAVE PEACE.
And don't let anger reign in your heart. Understandable ang anger na yan because you have been hurt. Pero habang buhay ka bang magpapakabitter? Diba? haha. (parang kinakausap ko lang self ko no?haha applicable) But siguro I have love him more rather than hate him. And despite everything, I will not do a thing to hurt him. And I am way better than doing revenge. Wala kang makukuha dun. Promise.
Instead. Pray for them. Pray for those who have hurt you.
YOLO MOMENTS.
Yeah coz you only live once.
Spend time with your loveones. Make it up with you friends and family.
Do something you enjoy that you think is productive and worth trying for.
Travel and travel some more.
Take that SAGADA trip (gagawin ko yan this year) Sisigaw with theee clouds :)
It's hard to move on. Bawat tao may kanya kanyang way. But what's important is you will move on. Just take time. I myself is still on that journey. But I'm alright. I'm okay. I'm saved.
Just...
FOCUS ON THE ONE. #Jesus
Live your life for Jesus. The lover of your soul.
I'm sharing this to you. Oo ikaw. Ikaw na katulad ko nagpakatanga sa pag-ibig at nasaktan. Don't worry hindi ka po nag-iisa. Madami tayo. So kakayanin mo yan! :)
Kung sa "that thing called tadhana" pa, sabi dun ni JM, "Ang love na binibigay mo, overwhelming... Not necessarily ibabalik yan nang taong pinagbigyan mo.. pero babalik at babalik yan sayo."
Don't worry, babalik yan sa atin. We deserve that kind of love too. So ngiti lang ha. Magandang buhay!
God has great plans for you. Remember Jeremiah 29:11
That thing called HEARTBREAK? Lilipas yan. If love ang dahilan nyan, love rin ang makakahilom nyan. Love rin ang makakaFILL nyan. God is still preparing for you. You just have to wait. But it will be worth it.
Kapit lang. Your story isn't still ending.
3.3.15
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